Planning your caesarean

There is a lot to do when planning any birth and this includes a caesarean. The procedure will not be booked until you reach approximately 30 weeks and at this point there are still lots of questions to ask, a birth plan to prepare and preferences to agree.

Questions to ask

These will be personal to you and you should create as full a list as you think necessary. Try not to feel intimidated once in front of the health professionals. They do this every day, you do not, so it is reasonable for you to ask lots and lots of questions. If you are not satisfied with the answers that you are given, keep asking the questions until you are. Subjects you may want to ask about are:

What is a birth plan?

A birth plan is a document that is created by the mother and birth partner and is an important consideration for any type of birth. It is not mandatory but it is a useful tool for ensuring that you have discussed all your hopes and requirements with the health professionals who are going to be looking after you. This is particularly important if you have any requirements which are not general practice i.e. determining the sex of your baby yourself, lowering the screen to see the moment of birth, viewing the placenta etc.

Women should be encouraged to define a birth plan as an essential part of preparing for birth. However, in doing so you should not assume that somehow preparing such a plan will ensure that you will get the exact birth that you want. Every birth progresses differently and the best laid plans may need to change as events change during labour. Unplanned caesareans do happen for a wide variety of reasons. Indeed all forms of medical intervention occur far more often than not. The Association for Improvements in Maternity Services (AIMS) has found that by its definition of a normal birth (no medical intervention of any sort), only 1 in 6 first time mothers achieved a spontaneous vaginal birth. Medical intervention (including one or more of the following: induction, artificial rupture of membranes, a caesarean section, general anaesthesia, forceps and/or ventouse, epidural anaesthesia or an episiotomy) occurred in the other 5 34.

Preferences to consider for inclusion in a caesarean birth plan

Flexible Birth Plans What's New

Birth plans are excellent for helping you to think through many of the issues surrounding the birth of your baby. The plan is there to show your preference. However "preference" is the important word here. Circumstances may arise which mean that at the last minute it might not be possible for your preference to be accommodated.

The more flexible your approach to your birth plan, the less likely you are to have an extreme, negative reaction to your overall birth, in the event that it deviates from your original plan. For example, incidents arising during a vaginal birth may mean that medical intervention (forceps or ventouse) is required. If you have prepared for this your birth plan can make statements about how you would like staff to proceed in the event of such intervention i.e. ventouse without an episiotomy and no forceps. It is possible that, in the event of an emergency, you will not have time or feel able to work through the issues before deciding on a course of action. The same is true for a caesarean.

"If women are well prepared during pregnancy, then they are more likely to have realistic expectations of the levels of pain, less likely to feel a failure and have increased confidence, which in turn can lead to more a positive experience. Women may have ideal hopes of what they would like to happen, but they need to be educated or informed to ensure that they are prepared for what might actually happen and give them the tools to deal with this." 109

Research suggests that regardless of mode of delivery, 2% of women may have such negative reactions to their delivery that their symptoms register on the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder scale 91. And in the case of emergency caesarean delivery as much as a third of women may experience "intrusive stress reactions" 92. Such studies serve to reinforcing the importance of understanding the caesarean procedure and developing an open-minded and flexible birth plan when preparing for birth. There are so many things that can be specified that will help make an unplanned caesarean a more positive experience.

Nowadays UK guidelines 27 are quite strict about the practises in theatre and your rights in particular. Being aware of these will help you, both in preparing your birth plan and on the day, should circumstances change.

Preparing yourself mentally What's New

Robert Oliver writes in The Ideal Caesarean Birth: "When it is known in advance that the birth will be a caesarean, the ideal caesarean birth will include emotional as well as physical preparation of the mother before she 'goes under the knife'. She must fully explore her feelings about and fears of the operation and recovery. She must identify with the operation and 'own' the procedure and see it as the means for her transformation to motherhood, not as a failure of herself or of her womanliness." 125

Discussing the issues described in the section on birth plans will help you cover most of issues surrounding caesarean birth. If you still feel apprehensive you may wish to try hypnosis or meditation techniques to help copy with any worries before hand. These techniques can also be used to help you on the day.

"Removal of fear by combining education with experience of progressive alternative states of consciousness prepares the woman, her intended child and the support family to create an ideal caesarean birth regardless of the medical model or hospital environmental conditions they may encounter." 125

Preparing your home

Things to take to hospital

In addition to all the nappies, baby clothes, blanket, muslins, wipes etc. that your new baby will need, take things for yourself: